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Anal sex—the very mention of it makes some lovers tremble, and others crazy with anticipation.  While you might be correct in assuming that much of anal sex’s recent trendiness has to do with the world of porn (which presents anal sex as something taboo, painless and intensely orgasmic), in fact, the human male’s fascination with anal intercourse dates back to the B.C. era.  Even today, you can find sexual artefacts (paintings, sculptures) in museums giving extra attention to the “fudge tunnel.” Continue Reading

(Why are They Such Hot Spots?)

Sex scenes in the movies have the right idea. Usually the hungry man goes straight for the woman’s breasts in a moment of unrestrained passion. Of course, then he quickly loses interest and goes in for the win. He is missing out on a great opportunity—as are the many men out there who learn about sex from the movies. The breasts are actually considered one of the nine “erogenous zones” making them centres for pleasure. Continue Reading

Last time you were here, we discussed the history of dildos and ancient phallic sex toys.  This week, we’re going to discuss the vibrator. Woo hoo!  Unlike the dildo, which only requires a general shape (and thus could be made of anything from rubber to camel dung…and yes, it once was), vibrators are a fairly new invention. Continue Reading

Who’s up for a history lesson today? Here’s something you don’t ponder very often—where did the dildo come from?  It’s not a conversation you have over tea with friends, but it may be something you might wonder after experiencing a torrid session of self-pleasure in the tub.  Indeed, the dildo seems like such a marvellously complex and yet very simple design.  How did this creative and amusing adult toy come to us? Continue Reading

Now this is a common scenario.  Your sex life is wet and wild and hot and heavy for years on end.  You can’t get enough of your partner and seem perfectly content with each other as lovers and as soul mates.  Then the kids come along…and suddenly your life consists of little more than full time babysitting, parenting, disciplining and shopping.  (And you’re lucky to get an hour of sleep!) Continue Reading

A recent psychological study quoted in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (and at Salon.com) suggested that when it comes to casual sex, women are just as likely to sleep with men as men are to sleep with women…assuming of course, that their proposition partner looks like Johnny Depp or Angelina Jolie.  It does make you wonder, in a post-feminist society where women no longer have to look for “providers” or suppress their sexuality, do they still go for looks? Continue Reading

Whether you call it a C-ring, cock ring or penis ring, this is a ring for your “eleventh finger.”  The cock ring is used recreationally and for sexual enhancement.  Though there are plenty of variations to cock ring designs, the basic model involves a ring that fits snugly (just tight enough but not painful) around the base of the shaft.  The purpose of the cock ring was originally to slow down the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue.  When the blood flow is slowed, a man’s erection can stay hard and last longer. Continue Reading

Can you survive a bad sex partner?  Can a relationship last if the sex is really that bad?  You might think such questions are life-defining moments that force you to choose between your head and your heart, or between a life of passion and a life of responsibility. Continue Reading

Every man that has ever lived believes himself to be the world’s greatest lover, but we all know that the world is full of one-pump Charlies, whose idea of foreplay is watching a soccer match, and afterglow usually consists of having you fix him a sandwich. Fear not though, ladies, it’s easy to tell ahead of time just how great that world’s greatest lover may be. Will he make your toes tingle? Here are ten sure signs that he’ll be worth your time: straight from the mouth of the Minx!
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