Sexual Health

Now this is a common scenario.  Your sex life is wet and wild and hot and heavy for years on end.  You can’t get enough of your partner and seem perfectly content with each other as lovers and as soul mates.  Then the kids come along…and suddenly your life consists of little more than full time babysitting, parenting, disciplining and shopping.  (And you’re lucky to get an hour of sleep!) Continue Reading

Kegel exercisers and Ben Wa Balls are often marketed as healthy sex toys for women.  Is it true? How important are “Kegel exercises” to physical health?  You may be surprised to learn that better sex equals better health. Continue Reading

It’s understandable why many people would have an interest in making their own homemade sex toy.  There is a great deal of uncertainty and trepidation involved in buying a sex toy from a store in person or even from an online Internet store.  After all, whenever we think of sex toys (and since we are taught that sex is a “dirty” thing by society) we always imagine the worst case scenario.  What would happen if someone got a hold of our credit card?  What if someone found out that we were ordering a sex toy? Continue Reading

The big question couples face after being together for a few years is, “Where did it go?” Sex becomes less frequent, and one partner may want it more than the other, or one partner may not want it at all. Can the relationship survive? If there is an imbalance in desire, then it’s going to be rough going. At some point, you lose that momentum. It’s no longer new. You both get busy with other things. Ironically, knowing that the other person is always there and available, often leads to less - not more sex. Continue Reading

The Oprah Winfrey show has been one of the most successful talk shows of all times, and Oprah herself is perhaps one of the most influential (not to mention wealthy) women in America. When she talks, people listen. If she likes a book, it becomes a best seller. If she likes a politician, he or she gets elected. And if she talks about sex, people have more orgasms.

In one episode when Oprah had sex therapist Dr. Laura Berman as a guest, the two had a great discussion that no doubt led to more enthusiastic bedroom encounters from coast to coast. Dr. Laura speaks plainly about what needs to be done to have a better sex life and it’s refreshing - and necessary to do so Continue Reading