The phrases “dominant” and “submissive” scare a lot of people.  However, all they really refer to is the sexual dynamic between two unevenly matched partners.  We take for granted the fact that many exciting relationships are built on dominant and submissive roles.  For example, have you ever had a hot fantasy about scoring with a teacher who is a few years older than you?  How about meeting and seducing a Hollywood celebrity?  The misbalance of power is obviously a major attractor in these types of relationships. Continue Reading

Can you survive a bad sex partner?  Can a relationship last if the sex is really that bad?  You might think such questions are life-defining moments that force you to choose between your head and your heart, or between a life of passion and a life of responsibility. Continue Reading

The simple answer is that it depends on the woman, the man and the relationship.  Not all women can be so carefully categorised in this regard.  Some women are completely content to think about their man only, while others may enjoy fantasizing about handsome strangers, movie stars or men at work. Continue Reading

Vida is all about sex, and that happens to be their motto: “Sex is life…life is Vida.”  This sex toy manufacturer has been making high-end sex toys for the past three years.  Besides making quality sex toys, the company also puts an emphasis on wide appeal—to couples, and to people who wouldn’t ordinarily buy a cheap little thrill. Continue Reading

“The Rolodex of Sex Toys?”

The first thought that comes to your mind upon seeing the Sqweel sex toy is: it looks like an X-rated rolodex.  However, when it comes to oral sex simulation, the flipping mechanism we all know and love is a good thing!  In order for real cunnilingus to work there must be steady and powerful rhythm from the tongue.  This is what the unique toy that is the Sqweel offers. Continue Reading

Hey guys, in this week’s article, we were lucky enough to get a guest writer: Danielle Barkes, a biological scientist who specialises in science and relationships. A fan of what we do here at KinkyMinx, she was nice enough to give us some words on Monogamy and science!

Monogamy—Nature’s Will or Man's Desire?

No one can deny that attitudes of monogamy today exist partly because of Puritan teachings, as well as scriptural doctrine.  Though many people may not subscribe to Christian thinking, they still subconsciously wrestle with religious dogma that has been passed from generation to generation.  These teachings still continue to influence court systems, media perceptions and local community standards.  We don’t know exactly where “good and evil” come from, but we know what is good and what is bad—because society always tells us so. Continue Reading

If you’re new to the concept of strap-on play, there are certainly a lot of questions, and a lot of incorrect impressions. The first assumption most people make is that strap-on play is strictly for lesbians. And while two women can certainly enjoy strap-on sex (and often do), it can also be enjoyed between a somewhat dominant lady and a man who enjoys anal sex. It could even be used between a man and a woman, if the man has problems getting or keeping an erection. In short, strap-on sex is just another type of sex, ready for anybody to enjoy should they be so inclined. Continue Reading

The story of Cinderella had her wearing an elegant slipper made of glass. The image was attractive and romantic, perhaps because of the slipper’s potential fragility, which made it delicate; or its resemblance to crystal; or perhaps just because the writer of the story had a foot fetish. Regardless, glass throughout history has been much more than functional. Combined with lead and made into elegant crystal stemware, it is the height of elegance and is given as a romantic gift at weddings. Continue Reading

Some of the most fun and entertaining festivals and holidays are in the Far East. If you’ve ever been to Thailand for Songkran (Buddhist New Year), you’ll know what we mean. Songkran is a water festival, but some of the more fascinating and unusual festivals occurring around the world centre around people throwing food at one another. And you thought festivals were just for listening to music and eating deep-fried snacks! Continue Reading

The big question couples face after being together for a few years is, “Where did it go?” Sex becomes less frequent, and one partner may want it more than the other, or one partner may not want it at all. Can the relationship survive? If there is an imbalance in desire, then it’s going to be rough going. At some point, you lose that momentum. It’s no longer new. You both get busy with other things. Ironically, knowing that the other person is always there and available, often leads to less - not more sex. Continue Reading